Friday, March 23, 2007



A person eminent in his field comes to visit one's community. He is highly regarded for his work and people respect him. People read his books and he influences various movements in society. When he arrives, he is tired, beleagured because recent reviews of his work have caused a stir, controversy. He does not feel well and he is tired so he comes to stay in a distant academic community. The person who invites him cannot host him continually but assumes the local community will take care of him. The famous man is less than endearing. He is famous and wants everyone to know he is, he tries to be humble but his attempts are weak and he does everything short of speaking of himself in third person. Folks listen initially, respectful. Eventually, people stop trying and avoid him. They know he does not care to listen to their concerns. He presumes they have a relationship upon which he can draw upon their energies and he hopes where he lacks intimate connection, his hubris allows him to perceive that his public stature will ensure rapt attention. He hovers more and more in public areas, in search of conversation. He is at best, an annoyance. People are looking forward to his departure. He places so much energy on the writing, the books, the politics, but he has so little by way of friendship and his ditherings have not made him charming or cute, he is just another tiresome old man.

2 comments:

Yellow Vespa Guy said...

I really enjoyed the photo that came with this musing. A piece that does not fit must find another puzzle set...

I have had an interesting 4 days...very interesting.

We'll talk.

percival35 said...

Yes, you made the connection beautifully. When the comedian, Chris Farley, died of an overdose, he committed suicide largely because he discovered the bitter truth that fame did not buy him friends or loved ones. That people still required of him to act like a person in a relationship and that being in front of a camera did not excuse him from acting in a humane way. Similarly, people who pursue excellences begin to give themselves "passes" and excuses for crimes of the heart and they find themselves suprised when folks hold them accountable or worse, avoid them because their fame is not sweet enough to cover the bitter pill of their person.